OK external factors that will stop you achieving your dream.
There is a difference between internal and external limitations. I will explain more later in the course but for now external is anything that is outside your mind.
So today we are going to look at drink, drugs and sex.
If you want to e the BEST you will have to refrain from all these, simple.
If you think you can go out and get smashed out of your head, then do a six mile run at 5.30am forget it, it isn’t happening.
If you think you can smoke weed, take coke and pills apart from the mental damage these drugs do your mind will not e on your game, simple this creates losing.
If you think you can go out because youve got a bit of a rep in the local area as a fighter or a bit of a celeb and people want to get with is cool, forget it….people create problems, in the form of…kiss and tell, lies, pregnancies (unwanted), rival girlfriend/boyfriend, gold diggers…believe me this all takes you AWAY not TOWARD your dream.
Since writing this message… TIGER WOODS…enough said !!!!!!
Listen your sporting life is very short…DO NOT….waste it on stupid Persuits. I would even go so far is and I don’t want to say this but save it until you retire and you’ve made the money and got the dream!!!!!!
External limitations
The first one is relationships.
Partners
friends
Parents
Believe me there are many people out there ready and willing to sabotage your success.
WHY…I hear you ask..
Jealousy
Fear
resentment
And I will surprise you even more…some of these people WILL be the closest people to you!
There is a test for this which is quite simple….the more they call you and act out the closer you are to your dream!!!
Now i am going to tell you a little secret and i was guilty of the opposite for years.
DO NOT TELL ANYONE YOUR DREAM OR GOAL…ONLY THOSE THAT ARE NECESSARY TO OBTAIN IT…i.e. coaches, promoters, managers.
TELL NO-ONE..TRAIN, PLAN, WORK,SLEEP, TRAIN, PLAN, REST, VISUALISE,
The Chinese have a saying, the more people you tell your dream the less powerful and weaker it becomes. To harness your dream keep it to yourself and let the power grow inside you. When its out there its open to manipulation and jealousy, resentment etc is there to destroy it.
GET THE MENTAL EDGE
Michael Darbyshire is a Guest Writer for our Boxing Website